{"id":90,"date":"2023-11-26T10:32:49","date_gmt":"2023-11-26T15:32:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thelaymanslantern.com\/?p=90"},"modified":"2024-02-07T12:51:38","modified_gmt":"2024-02-07T17:51:38","slug":"be-a-better-man-socrates-seneca-and-samwise-gamgee","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thelaymanslantern.com\/index.php\/2023\/11\/26\/be-a-better-man-socrates-seneca-and-samwise-gamgee\/","title":{"rendered":"Be a Better Man: Socrates, Seneca, and Samwise Gamgee."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator alignfull has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-cover alignfull wp-duotone-unset-1\"><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-cover__background has-background-dim\"><\/span><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1708\" src=\"https:\/\/thelaymanslantern.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/pexels-bob-price-764880-scaled.jpg\" class=\"wp-block-cover__image-background wp-post-image\" alt=\"\" data-object-fit=\"cover\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thelaymanslantern.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/pexels-bob-price-764880-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/thelaymanslantern.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/pexels-bob-price-764880-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/thelaymanslantern.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/pexels-bob-price-764880-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/thelaymanslantern.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/pexels-bob-price-764880-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/thelaymanslantern.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/pexels-bob-price-764880-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/thelaymanslantern.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/pexels-bob-price-764880-2048x1366.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><div class=\"wp-block-cover__inner-container has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-cover-is-layout-constrained\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center has-base-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-c850d5baca2859ee81a20b8bc1aaf397\" style=\"font-size:clamp(2.021rem, 2.021rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 2.871), 3.6rem);\">Be a Better Man: Socrates, Seneca, and Samwise Gamgee.<\/h3>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator alignfull has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:9px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-x-large-font-size\">The Avalanche of Advice<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:clamp(0.984rem, 0.984rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.938), 1.5rem);\">It\u2019s impossible to open up Instagram, TikTok, or X (formerly Twitter) without getting fire-hosed with dozens of different opinions about who you should be and how you should live. \u201cIt\u2019s okay for men to be weak!\u201d \u201cWomen belong to the Man.\u201d \u201cWhat is a woman?\u201d \u201cWhy do you care, Man?\u201d Everyone has often seen these \u201cInfluencers\u201d and commenters and thought, \u201cWho the hell is this guy? How did he get onto my feed?\u201d It\u2019s also difficult to distinguish who to listen to when popular, and not necessarily authoritative, voices appear in our feeds.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:clamp(0.984rem, 0.984rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.938), 1.5rem);\">Even after you filter through the nonsense, the substantive information you\u2019re left with can be overwhelming. The morning routines, the studies, the stats\u2026they\u2019re impossible to implement as quickly as we discover them. \u201cKeep your house in order. Do these seven things to reshape your life. Treat women in these five vague ways, and you\u2019ll never be alone.\u201d If we try to do every helpful thing we see, we\u2019ll end up doing none of them, finding ourselves no better off than if we had never opened these apps up in the first place.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:9px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading has-x-large-font-size\">The Fundamentals<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:clamp(0.984rem, 0.984rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.938), 1.5rem);\">A Greek, a Stoic, and a Hobbit walk into a bar. What do these three have to do with each other? Not much, but when tackling such a broad question as \u201cWhat should a man be?\u201d It\u2019s helpful to find a wide range of answers. However, they have a bit in common: they are all revered as intelligent, relatable, and admirable people. So, when looking for some simple, fundamental answers to how we should act and who we should be, these three seem to be as good a start as any.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:clamp(0.984rem, 0.984rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.938), 1.5rem);\">Comparing the viewpoints of Socrates, Seneca, and Samwise, Gamgee offers us a basic understanding of human virtues and responsibilities from distinct perspectives and eras: Greek, stoic, and literary. With his focus on ethical living and self-awareness, Socrates represents classical Greek philosophy\u2019s pursuit of moral truth. Seneca, a leading Stoic, provides insights into the virtues of resilience and rationality, reflecting a pragmatic approach to life\u2019s challenges. Although a fictional character, Samwise Gamgee embodies qualities like loyalty, bravery, and simplicity, offering a relatable and inspirational model of steadfastness and good nature in the face of adversity.  Simplicity is the common thread here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:clamp(0.984rem, 0.984rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.938), 1.5rem);\">So what should a man be?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:9px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading has-x-large-font-size\">Socrates: A man should be self-reflective, pursuing knowledge and virtue.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-link-color wp-elements-a47227415864d88b2d04a59bc4fb8314\" style=\"font-size:clamp(0.984rem, 0.984rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.938), 1.5rem);\">Socrates believed that the foremost responsibility of a man was to be virtuous and to live a life of moral and ethical excellence. The philosopher famously asserted that \u201cVirtue is knowledge.\u201d This statement underlines his belief that knowledge leads to correct action. Therefore, Socrates posits that pursuing knowledge was not just an intellectual exercise but a moral duty. Socrates is often credited for the quote: \u201cKnow Thyself.\u201d He argued that self-awareness was crucial for understanding one\u2019s beliefs and motivations, leading to a virtuous life. He encouraged critical self-examination, arguing that an unexamined life is not worth living. According to Socrates, these responsibilities are interlinked: Knowledge and self-awareness will inherently lead to a virtuous life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-contrast-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-2ea883b010d0eb9b9d2019a3487595ee\" style=\"font-size:clamp(0.984rem, 0.984rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.938), 1.5rem);\">In \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/22632.The_Trial_and_Death_of_Socrates\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"The Trial and Death of Socrates,\">The Trial and Death of Socrates,<\/a>\u201d (2000) Plato describes the final scene in Socrates\u2019 life, as his friends are with him in his cell, urging him to escape his death penalty and flee Athens. They try and try, and they fail. Socrates was convinced that facing death was the right thing to do. This \u201cright thing\u201d would bring about the worst possible outcome for him. If there was ever a temptation to do the wrong thing, it was at this point. But Socrates stood fast, willingly drinking his hemlock poison.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-link-color wp-elements-ae128a4784458c886d68b004cb264b72\" style=\"font-size:clamp(0.984rem, 0.984rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.938), 1.5rem);\">Socrates stayed true to his philosophy and practiced what he preached: The importance of self-reflection and virtue.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-link-color wp-elements-326c5c168b2014e7dd0e005d57da6d2b\" style=\"font-size:clamp(0.984rem, 0.984rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.938), 1.5rem);\">Thankfully, there are more appealing ways to emulate Socrates other than consuming hemlock. Living humbly and thirsting for knowledge is entirely feasible. Especially with the internet, where knowledge is so accessible, we can pursue knowledge and live better.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:9px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading has-x-large-font-size\">Seneca: A man should be calm, gathered, and sound.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left\" style=\"font-size:clamp(0.984rem, 0.984rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.938), 1.5rem);\">Seneca, a prominent Stoic philosopher, articulated specific views on the responsibilities of man grounded in Stoicism. He believed that the primary duty of a person is to live in harmony with nature, which includes understanding and accepting the world&#8217;s natural order. According to Seneca, this involves acknowledging that certain things are beyond our control and focusing on what we can influence \u2013 our own thoughts and actions.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:clamp(0.984rem, 0.984rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.938), 1.5rem);\">And, of course, Seneca is revered today for his advocacy of controlling one\u2019s emotions. He saw passions, like anger or envy, as disturbances to the soul. Thus, he saw a key responsibility of man to cultivate emotional resilience, equipping oneself to deal with adversity with calmness and reason.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:clamp(0.984rem, 0.984rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.938), 1.5rem);\">Easier said than done. Losing your temper can feel good. It might be addictive, if at least habitual. We don\u2019t have to be Giga-Chad; we don\u2019t have to be the ultimate sigma male. However, to practice calmness and emotional resilience, we should intentionally subject ourselves to stress, discomfort, and adversity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:9px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading has-x-large-font-size\">Samwise Gamgee:&nbsp; a man should be steadfast and optimistic, even in the most trying times.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:clamp(0.984rem, 0.984rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.938), 1.5rem);\">While Sam Gamgee isn\u2019t a philosopher, he is a character who displays some of the most desirable characteristics that a man can have. Since he is so widely beloved, it\u2019s safe to assume that we can learn a thing or two about how he acts and implement a bit of Sam into ourselves.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-contrast-color has-text-color\" style=\"font-size:clamp(0.984rem, 0.984rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.938), 1.5rem);\">&#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/goodreads.com\/book\/show\/33.The_Lord_of_the_Rings\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"The Lord of the Rings\">The Lord of the Rings<\/a>&#8221; (Tolkien, 2009) shows various aspects of Sam\u2019s character. Near the story&#8217;s beginning, when the hobbits still don\u2019t quite know what is ahead, we see Sam\u2019s cheerful mood. As the story evolves and grows more grim, so do many of the Fellowship of the Ring. But almost all the way through, Sam exudes an optimistic outlook. And in the most trying of times, Sam remains loyal and steadfast to Frodo. He\u2019s not a bastion of valor and heroics or a repository of knowledge and concepts. But as simple as he may seem, he is pure of heart.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:9px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Starting line<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:clamp(0.984rem, 0.984rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.938), 1.5rem);\">One of the most frustrating misconceptions of masculinity on the internet is that with masculinity comes this \u201cCan\u2019t touch me, I don\u2019t care\u201d attitude. It\u2019s never explicitly said, but there is a very present mindset that kindness is the opposite of strength, and therefore men shouldn\u2019t be kind. Of course, this isn\u2019t true. Everyone hates a complainer. Everyone hates a pessimist. Everyone hates it when people are rude to them. No one looks at a man being kind and thinks, \u201cI hate that man.\u201d Alright, we sometimes see an optimistic man and say, \u201cI hate that man.\u201d But we groan at someone else\u2019s optimism because we know we should be that way, too.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:clamp(0.984rem, 0.984rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.938), 1.5rem);\">The next time you see a bald guy in a black T-shirt telling you this and that about manhood, or you see a girl on TikTok screaming in her car about her ex, stick to the good stuff, the classics. These are all fundamental ideas. A man should be knowledgeable, humble, and stick to his morals. He should be calm and control his temper. He should be kind, loyal, and optimistic. Let\u2019s just start with that and move on from there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:9px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator alignwide has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\" style=\"font-size:clamp(0.875rem, 0.875rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.773), 1.3rem);\">Works Cited<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:clamp(0.875rem, 0.875rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.773), 1.3rem);\">Plato, et al. <em>The Trial and Death of Socrates<\/em> (Third Edition). Hackett Publishing,&nbsp;2000.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:clamp(0.875rem, 0.875rem + ((1vw - 0.2rem) * 0.773), 1.3rem);\">Tolkien, J. R. 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